Okay, so, I’ve been meaning to share this for a while, and today’s the day. I’ve been messing around with tarot cards, trying to figure out my love life. It’s been a wild ride, so let me tell you about it.

I started by getting a deck of tarot cards. Nothing fancy, just a basic one I found online. I figured, why not? I’d always been curious about this stuff, and maybe it could give me some clarity. Or at least some fun, right?
Then I started looking up different spreads. I stumbled upon this thing called the “Finding My Soulmate” spread. It’s got nine cards, and it’s supposed to help you prepare for finding your, you know, soulmate. I know it sounds kinda corny, but I was game.
My Soulmate Tarot Reading Process
- I pulled out the cards. I shuffled them, focusing on the idea of finding love, all that jazz. Then, I laid out nine cards in the pattern the spread showed.
- I started analyzing. I started looking up what each card meant, especially in relation to love and relationships. Some cards were pretty straightforward, like the ones about new beginnings and stuff. Others, not so much.
- I got confused. Sometimes, the cards seemed to contradict each other. Or they were just super vague. I spent hours going back and forth, trying to make sense of it all.
- I did more readings. I didn’t stop at one. I did a bunch of readings over a few weeks. I’d ask different questions, try different spreads. I was really digging into it, you know?
I kept a journal, too. I wrote down each reading, the cards I pulled, what I thought they meant, how I felt. It got pretty deep sometimes. It was like I was having these long conversations with myself, trying to figure out what I really wanted in a partner and in a relationship.
I talked to some friends about it, too. Some were into it, others thought I was nuts. But hey, it was my journey. And honestly, it was kinda therapeutic. Even if the cards weren’t magic, they made me think. They made me reflect on my past relationships, my patterns, my fears, all of it.

So, did I find my soulmate yet? Well, not yet. But, I feel like I’m in a better place to be open to love. It’s like I cleared out some of the junk in my head, you know? I have a better sense of what I’m looking for, and maybe, just maybe, that’s half the battle. And hey, even if I don’t find “the one” right away, I learned a lot about myself in the process. And that’s pretty cool, too.
I keep doing readings every now and then. It’s become this little ritual for me. It’s like checking in with myself, making sure I’m still on the right track. And it’s fun! It’s like having a secret little advisor that helps me navigate this crazy thing called love.
Anyway, that’s my tarot story. Maybe it’ll inspire you to try it out, maybe not. But either way, I hope you find your own way to navigate love and life. It’s a wild ride, but it’s definitely worth it.